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Good News Friday: Feb. 22, 2013

Windsor High students take bullying into their own hands, a cat enters an epic battle and things so wrong you'll have to smile.

As a former victim of bullying Windsor High sophomore Stella Rivera knows its negative effects and knows something must be done about it. That's why the gifted program student, with help from a few of her colleagues, worked to schedule and gain funding to bring John Halligan to town.

Halligan, a Vermont father, has traveled the country telling his story, hoping audiences of young students take to hear the impact bullying can have on an individual, on a family.

Halligan lost his on in 2003 when the 13-year-old committed suicide after having been the victim of bullying.

With anecdotes about his son, family photos flashing on a large projection screen and words of encouragement for victims and witnesses of bullying, Halligan spoke to an auditorium full of Windsor High sophomores, thanks to the efforts of Rivera and her colleagues, Michael Harper, Danny Kaster, Juliet Orszulak and Akash Kunver.

"The fact that stella, a student, pulled me in (to speak) is the ideal situation," said Halligan. "I'm happy to (speak at) any school... but it's much better to be pulled in from the inside, because then I know there's buy-in. I know there's an investment, and that's what I felt today. I felt supported by the students. I felt supported by the staff."

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According to Rivera, she saw Halligan speak to students at Granby Memorial High School, where her mother teaches. After hearing his story, she knew her colleagues would benefit from hearing him in person.

(Want something else that'll make you smile this Good-News Friday? Check out the cute cat video above or click here for a chuckle that will undoubtedly be accomplanied by endless shaking of your head.)

As a result, she worked diligently over the past year to bring Halligan to town, and with help from her colleagues, including writing grants, her efforts were a success.

"One main goal is to prevent any bad things from happening, any fellow students from finding themselves in a situation that they feel they can't get out of," said Juliet Orszulak, who worked with Rivera to bring Halligan to town.

"It's also to show that our school has resources and there are many programs reaching out to those students to speak up, especially if you're a bystander — don't just sit back, speak up," she added.

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George Slate May 22, 2013 at 06:45 pm
Yes, success has many parents. I truly do not want to taint your story, but my question is: DoesRead More WEF have enough money to fund an EER by a legitimate researcher (or are you willing to start up a collection?)? If you do, maybe in five years you can do a similar story about our High School.
CatherineDennis May 21, 2013 at 08:45 pm
Congrats to all students, parents, teachers and administrators at Sage Park. It would seem thatRead More mission statements, transparency, parent involvement all equal excellence. How much would you charge to teach these basics to those that feel the need to hire college students from Chicago to review WHS-those very same people that congratulated you tonight? The students achievements that were honored tonight were very impressive and you make us all proud. Keep up the great work at Sage Park.
George Slate May 21, 2013 at 05:07 pm
Thank you Al and Bill for the follow up comments. For both, as I understand it, the fancy words are,Read More longitudinal studies. Take the same students, or group of students if the individual data is not available, and see how the test results go from third grade to high school. I've only done a quick scan of the test results for Windsor that R. Eleveld gave us a link to earlier. Along with understanding the Town's audited financial statements (which Bill might help me with), this longitudinal information is something that I hope to work through as time permits. As I write this, I should consider a FOI to see if it already exists. If it already exists, I'm surprised that all of us do not already have easy access to it. When I have the information gathered, I will share summaries here. And for the two of you, I will share the detailed spreadsheets. As I recall, even last night the conversation centered on the High School for turn around, and regardless of what we think of the person currently engaged for the EER, the EER is for the High School only.
Bill Generous May 21, 2013 at 04:46 pm
George, keep in mind that after middle school at Sage Park, some students go to other public orRead More private high schools. Studies comparing the middle and high school should concentrate on students that have attended both.
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Albert Williams May 20, 2013 at 03:40 pm
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R Eleveld May 21, 2013 at 03:44 pm
@Slate The BoE originally said they did not believe the Town Ethics Commission had purview over theRead More BoE. Yes in November the voters can choose to continue the behavior with the current party in the majority. See the comment of WR who says a Councilor accepted responsibility here: http://windsor.patch.com/groups/schools/p/council-approves-reduction-in-education-funding
George Slate May 20, 2013 at 02:27 pm
R Eleveld - Just to clarify, The Town Ethics Committee ruled (1) that the BOE is subject to the TownRead More Ethics Code, but (2) they do not have jurisdiction over violations of BOE by laws violations. When someone is brought in front of an Ethics Committee, and comes out vindicated, one of two things happen. They are humbled, or emboldened. The BOE President, and the Superintendent of Schools are emboldened because virtually nothing stands in their way of two person absolute rule, until November 2013. The only obstacle is for one of the Democrat BOE members joining the other four BOE members to reign (the pun works all too well here) them in (this appears unlikely). What is the old saying, Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely? So we have to wait until November to try and fix this situation. In the meantime the voters in Windsor can keep voting NO on the referenda to send the message that we do not want dysfunctional BOE oversight. Or we could get back a functional BOE. Since September 12, 2012, this possibility grow less likely each day.
R Eleveld May 20, 2013 at 10:18 am
@Michele, you are correct. The TC can only provide the BoE an amount of money, it can not in anywayRead More tell the BoE what to do with that money. It could make suggestions, however they carry the same weight as any citizen making any suggestion to the BoE. State law has created the BoE as an island unto itself. They do not even think they are subject to the Town Ethics Code. The voters do have the power to change what they do not like in November. The question is will they again repeat the prior behavior and vote in those that will not make change. Remember Einstein's definition of insanity. It applies here.
R Eleveld May 20, 2013 at 10:22 am
They did a good job of investigation along with Ms. Fissel. in the article: Some investigationRead More yields more questions. I ask some questions about the timing of this whole situation. It is now become an embarrassment to Windsor, Loyola, and Dr. James. The idea of this research/study is important, however this execution is fraught with problems and serious concerns. http://windsor.patch.com/groups/r-elevelds-blog/p/some-investigation-yields-more-questions