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Life After Sandy Hook: Which Way Will Connecticut Go?

A brief discussion about Sandy Hook and moving forward with more protection

Without doubt, the Newtown massacre is the second most horrible tragedy of my lifetime.  The first was 9/11. For many of us both events shook our faith, shattered our sense of safety and shed a different light on our view the world and our follow man. My heart weeps for the parent of the victims, but besides very sad I feel angryand afraid.  I cannot stop asking the inexplicable

question: Why?

I am not a gun lover, in fact, quite the opposite.  However, over the next several
months, there will be much discussion regarding what we should do so prevent
another Sandy Hook, and I am not sure tougher gun laws will do it.

If we look back at other mass shootings — Pearl, Mississippi, Jonesboro, Arkansas, Paducah, Kentucky, Columbine, Virginia Tech, Colorado movie theater, Sandy Hook Elementary — all occurred in “gun free zones”, areas  where the killers knew they could bring to bear carnage while confronting little to no resistance. 

Would Lanza have gone to the elementary school if he knew there was an armed officer on site, or if the staff were armed? We will never know because he shot himself when he heard the police sirens. However, it is interesting to note that before he went to the school, Lanza shot and killed his mother while she was still in bed. Why? Is it because he knew that his mother had guns, and if she was laying down in bad there was less of a chance she could get to one of her weapons before he killed her? 

Something else I have noticed is that school shootings with mass casualties are not happening at inner city schools. Most have taken place in small towns, predominantly middle to upper-middle-class, affluent communities. Why is that?  Is it because as a society we associate guns with the inner city? Hence, the killers assume that at an inner city school they are more likely to encounter someone with a gun? There are many questions but still no answers.

A few weeks before the Sandy Hook slaughter Lanza attempted to get a gun permit, and he was refused. Despite the fact that our laws did not prevent the killings, the existing gun laws worked because it prevented a mad man from obtaining a permit and legally acquiring a gun. Unfortunately, the guns he used to kill the innocent were registered to his mother. Unlike her son, there is all indication Nancy Lanza was a stable and well-respected member of her community. Therefore, “tougher gun laws” would not have prevented Nancy Lanza from legally owning guns, and would not prevent the shootings.

If we were going to look for new laws as the means to prevent the next school shootings, nothing short of banning the sale of guns, and confiscating the guns already owned by law-abiding citizens, would prevent the next massacre.  We all know that outlawing gun ownership in America will not happen. Moreover, even if a law were to pass and survive all the legal challenges, it would impossible to enforce.  So what can we do to protect our children from the Adam Lanza’s of the world?

I believe that first step towards a more safe environment  requires  admitting that there is no one size fits all solution to the problem of mass shootings, and that there is no such thing as absolute safety. The best we can do, is reduce the risk as much as possible.

Consequently, we need to carry out a comprehensive risk assessment of each school in our state. We have to identify the unique vulnerabilities at each facility and take action to eliminate or at the very least lessen them. We need to always weigh our threat level so we start responding to situations versus reacting to tragedy.

Long term, we need to undertake a thorough review of our mental health assets. What short and lasting help do we offer people suffering from serious mental health issues? How can we best assist the families of sufferers, especially parents of adult children who refuse treatment? Connecticut is one of only six states that do not have an assisted outpatient treatment law. Maybe we need to ask the question when do personal and public safeties supersede the freedoms and/or privacy rights of the individual?

Repeatedly, we hear that these crazed shooters are loners; that they isolated themselves from the rest. Why do they? Are they rescuing themselves from the pain that they are different? This brings up the push to “mainstream” all children.  Is “mainstreaming” children with serious developmental and psychological
challenges the best course of action for them and others?  Should we try to educate them at least temporarily with others working to overcome similar challenges? For the children that we mainstream do we have enough resources in place so they and their families receive the necessary help? 

The murders at Sandy Hook are horrible. Nevertheless, before we rush off to try to “save” the children by way of more legislative band aides - we need to stop, and find the courage and leadership to enter into a perhaps politically incorrect, certainly gut wrenching, but very needed conversation.



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



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George Slate May 22, 2013 at 06:45 pm
Yes, success has many parents. I truly do not want to taint your story, but my question is: DoesRead More WEF have enough money to fund an EER by a legitimate researcher (or are you willing to start up a collection?)? If you do, maybe in five years you can do a similar story about our High School.
CatherineDennis May 21, 2013 at 08:45 pm
Congrats to all students, parents, teachers and administrators at Sage Park. It would seem thatRead More mission statements, transparency, parent involvement all equal excellence. How much would you charge to teach these basics to those that feel the need to hire college students from Chicago to review WHS-those very same people that congratulated you tonight? The students achievements that were honored tonight were very impressive and you make us all proud. Keep up the great work at Sage Park.
George Slate May 21, 2013 at 05:07 pm
Thank you Al and Bill for the follow up comments. For both, as I understand it, the fancy words are,Read More longitudinal studies. Take the same students, or group of students if the individual data is not available, and see how the test results go from third grade to high school. I've only done a quick scan of the test results for Windsor that R. Eleveld gave us a link to earlier. Along with understanding the Town's audited financial statements (which Bill might help me with), this longitudinal information is something that I hope to work through as time permits. As I write this, I should consider a FOI to see if it already exists. If it already exists, I'm surprised that all of us do not already have easy access to it. When I have the information gathered, I will share summaries here. And for the two of you, I will share the detailed spreadsheets. As I recall, even last night the conversation centered on the High School for turn around, and regardless of what we think of the person currently engaged for the EER, the EER is for the High School only.
Bill Generous May 21, 2013 at 04:46 pm
George, keep in mind that after middle school at Sage Park, some students go to other public orRead More private high schools. Studies comparing the middle and high school should concentrate on students that have attended both.
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R Eleveld May 21, 2013 at 03:44 pm
@Slate The BoE originally said they did not believe the Town Ethics Commission had purview over theRead More BoE. Yes in November the voters can choose to continue the behavior with the current party in the majority. See the comment of WR who says a Councilor accepted responsibility here: http://windsor.patch.com/groups/schools/p/council-approves-reduction-in-education-funding
George Slate May 20, 2013 at 02:27 pm
R Eleveld - Just to clarify, The Town Ethics Committee ruled (1) that the BOE is subject to the TownRead More Ethics Code, but (2) they do not have jurisdiction over violations of BOE by laws violations. When someone is brought in front of an Ethics Committee, and comes out vindicated, one of two things happen. They are humbled, or emboldened. The BOE President, and the Superintendent of Schools are emboldened because virtually nothing stands in their way of two person absolute rule, until November 2013. The only obstacle is for one of the Democrat BOE members joining the other four BOE members to reign (the pun works all too well here) them in (this appears unlikely). What is the old saying, Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely? So we have to wait until November to try and fix this situation. In the meantime the voters in Windsor can keep voting NO on the referenda to send the message that we do not want dysfunctional BOE oversight. Or we could get back a functional BOE. Since September 12, 2012, this possibility grow less likely each day.
R Eleveld May 20, 2013 at 10:18 am
@Michele, you are correct. The TC can only provide the BoE an amount of money, it can not in anywayRead More tell the BoE what to do with that money. It could make suggestions, however they carry the same weight as any citizen making any suggestion to the BoE. State law has created the BoE as an island unto itself. They do not even think they are subject to the Town Ethics Code. The voters do have the power to change what they do not like in November. The question is will they again repeat the prior behavior and vote in those that will not make change. Remember Einstein's definition of insanity. It applies here.
R Eleveld May 20, 2013 at 10:22 am
They did a good job of investigation along with Ms. Fissel. in the article: Some investigationRead More yields more questions. I ask some questions about the timing of this whole situation. It is now become an embarrassment to Windsor, Loyola, and Dr. James. The idea of this research/study is important, however this execution is fraught with problems and serious concerns. http://windsor.patch.com/groups/r-elevelds-blog/p/some-investigation-yields-more-questions